HOW IMPORTANT IS GOOD SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Does the SEX really matter? This question always comes up & everyone has a different opinion about it. My thoughts are yes it does matter. Sex is mental & if it's bad it leaves you with negative thoughts about your partner. You may be able to deal with it for a while but you won't be able to pacify yourself with a lackluster sex life forever. I say communication is key...talk openly & honestly with your partner & let them know what you like & what's wrong. But the real question is what do you do when the sex doesn't get better?

Is that reason enough to end a relationship? Can sex ruin a strong foundation? Or should you just tough it out & make it work? What are your thoughts?

LOVE STRUCK!!

In true February (Month of Love) fashion...This is for all my "Love Struck" folks out there. If you have a crush on someone... TELL THEM!! Don't wait till it's too late people...you never know! Be Bold, Be Brave, and GET IT DONE! The worse thing that can happen is they don't feel the same way, but that's the beauty of a crush....you can't have too many!!! LOL!

SO HAPPY CRUSHING EVERYONE!! CUPID'S WORKING OVERTIME THIS MONTH!!!

WHEN LOVE ISN'T ENOUGH

So at what point do you decide love just isn't enough??? And the real question is..Who gets to decide? Do you exhaust ALL the possibilities? Or do you cut your losses & get out quickly?? February is the month of LOVE so I'll be asking all the hard questions...And this is for both the fellas & the ladies. When is a good time to WALK AWAY & MOVE ON??? I mean LOVE only gets you so far, RIGHT?? But to maintain a sound, healthy relationship aren't there other requirements?? Like Honesty, clear communication, chemistry, trust, and good ole fashion GREAT SEX!!

I may be wrong people, but if I am let me know....lol

FEAR NOT

I was once told NEVER BE AFRAID to love because then you're just AFRAID TO LIVE. My advice is to take chances & don't be fearful of the outcome. You can never know what's on the other side of the door unless you open it. We are only human (obviously..lol) which means we will make mistakes & sometimes make the wrong choice....but we shouldn't be condemned for life. Love can be the most wonderful feeling that you've EVER known & then there's the downside of it being the most painful experience known to man. I've been on both sides of love & i still think everyone should experience it. The saying "You never know till you try" explains it all. So get out there & live, love, and do it while you can.

THIS IS THE YEAR OF THE LOVER?!?!? OR IS IT?

So Valentine's Day was this past Sunday & the world was mad with lovely wishes & heartfelt sentiments. How did you spend yours? Well I spent mine with someone special in my life although we're not together (in that way). What's your take on that? Having people in your life who you just can't shake? Whether you're in a relationship or just "seeing someone" else? How do handle it? This one's for the ladies & the fellas...we all have that 1 person who we'll Love forever....no matter whi we're with or what happens in our lives....but why does it have to be from afar? Why can't we just make it work if the love is still so strong & the passion & chemistry is still there?

A LOVE AFFAIR

Are you in a LOVE TRIANGLE? If so, how does it make you feel? Do you want it to end? Or are you ready to have him/her to yourself? Most LOVE TRIANGLES happen because someone's cheating, but how do they end once real feelings start to surface? How do you break off something when it begins to consume you? And if you do break it off can you do it COLD TURKEY? Many of us have been in one of these situations (myself included), and believe me it doesn't get any easier to let go. I just wonder if men & women have different views about it? Love...You can't live without it & sometimes it hurts like hell. GO FIGURE!

YOU SEND ME (SAM COOKE)

I absolutely love Classic R&B & I fell in love with this artist soooo long ago. This was a TRUE love ballad. You can't deny SAM COOKE. Look Nana I still love his music till this day. LOL

"Ex-Factor"

Compliments of Bossip.com

Is it so? Did Chili win his heart back? Hmmmmmm....Maybe it is possible to get over past transgressions & start over fresh.....Ladies do you agree?

True Love.....Does it really Exist? Or is it a myth?

How many women do you know looking for love? Or recovering from "Love Lost"? Or does this sound familiar....Why didn't he choose me? What's wrong with me? This may not be the case for all women, but I know that some of us have said these exact same words......Give your opinion..or share your story...or just ask a question